Lanette's Blog: He Lived

The loss of a loved one is a crazy thing. It’s sad, of course. That’s a given. The profound effect is pretty heavy at times. You think of the way it was... the past is usually something to smile about. And you think of the last time you were with that person hoping it was something to be able to hold onto. And you think about the future. That’s where it gets a little tricky especially in this circumstance. Because the loss was a young person as a result of addiction. That’s the kind of stuff that makes your soul turn black. On the night he died, I stared at my kids as they fell asleep... holding onto their hands, playing with their hair, whispering in their ears ‘never forget how much I love you..' As if any of these things would save them from the world, but that’s just not reality.  Because at one time... he was that happy-go-lucky kid, too! He was funny and caring and lived for baseball. He loved his family something fierce. Once on a family trip, we argued who would have to sit next to him because this kid wouldn’t stop talking. I lost. When I was in college, I happily drove home to watch him play basketball and baseball. And he always managed to find me after the game to say he appreciated me being there. Growing up with him was the easy part. As alcohol started taking over his life, it was hard to be around him... then it was hard to hear about him... until it felt better to just remember the way it was. Because that’s when we smiled. So it’s that little boy I say good bye to, making it hurt so badly. And that’s why holding my babies longer and closer just feels like the right thing to do.
Hear Lanette Hansen on the Magic Morning Show, weekdays from 5:45-10! Get in touch with her and read more of her blogs here

Fletch's Blog: Limericks Are Different, Now More Than Ever

Happy National Limerick Day! Here's a new limerick that probably wouldn't have been possible without all of the Public Service Announcement cliches, thanks to the dang virus...

In these most uncertain times
Our cliché use, everyday, climbs
Now more than ever
We’re in this together
Even though we’re apart, makin’ rhymes

Hear Fletcher Keyes on the Magic Morning Show with Lanette Hansen! Read more of his blogs here.


Fletch's Blog: May Soliloquy 2.0

What a difference a year can make! A year ago, the beginning of May, it was cold and wet and all around blech-y. And it upset me. So I chastised May, I excoriated May, because it had been bad! I gave it a good talkin’-to. Here’s what I said a year ago on May 1

“Oh May, what have you become? For all my life, my favorite month, let me count the ways.
The weather, like a soft kiss.
The beginning of fishing season, many family birthdays.
Flowers and trees and little baby birds, bursting out everywhere.
But, May, with your new style of cold and rain, you have left me wanting! So wanting!
For years now, May, you have laid down, abandoning your role as a glorious ramp
from April to June, giving up your duties as the most beautiful month of the year.
So let-down I am, by you, my lovely month of May, that I wonder… if you shouldn’t be re-named… as May Not?”

Seeing the glorious weather we’re supposed to have for this first weekend in May, I have to believe that talkin’-to stuck!

Hear Fletcher Keyes on the Magic Morning Show with Lanette Hansen! Read more of his blogs here.


Listen: Thank You Thursday Shout-Outs

Right now, there's a lot to be thankful for. We're especially thankful for our local doctors, nurses and other healthcare workers, teachers, grocery store staff, first responders, truckers, and delivery workers... the list of people working to keep our community healthy and strong goes on and on. Maybe you're thankful for a complete stranger that helped you, or the kids who made you smile with their sidewalk chalk art. It might be someone who fulfilled your online grocery order, or a neighbor who left hand-sanitizer on your porch.

Thank You Thursdays celebrates the people we have to be thankful for... listen to shout-outs we did during the COVID-19 quarantine in 2020 below...

Melissa thanks her sister, Tracy

Dean thanks the Magic Crew, for keeping him company

Chris thanks Tracy, for her trust and support

Kristine thanks Jim from the Verona Lions Club

Paul thanks his mom, Mary, for making masks for her community

Donna thanks Laurel and Lisa from Our Redeemer Lutheran School in Madison

Laurie thanks Kate who's started a fun pay-it-forward group in Columbus

 

Lori thanks Karben4 Brewing for the "Drive Thru Tap Rooms" that she looks forward to each week

 

Terie wrote to us about Deb (pictured below) who is working extra hard to keep her staff safe

 

Kim gives a shoutout to her neighbors who have been helping her, help others

 

Cindy thanks Kurt who went out of his way for Teacher Appreciation Day

 

Theresa shares a thank you to long-term care providers

 

Kris wrote in to thank all our mail carriers

 

Diane thanks Dee, who is answering the call for face masks and kindness

 

Laurie thanks Julie from Julie's Java House in Columbus

 

Mari thanks Jeremy from Summit Credit Union

 

Amanda and Kristine work at Festival Foods in Verona

 

Thank You Thursdays is a token of our appreciation for all of those who are going above and beyond to take care of one another, from Magic 98! Nominate someone with the form below...


Lanette's Blog: Grace

Grace. It’s a beautiful name. It’s even better as a virtue. It’s a word that has continually popped into my head over the last month. Emotions are running high no matter where you go… and you can sit and try to define everything. And look online to find out just how to treat these new found problems and issues. But it all comes down to one word… 'grace.' Give it, take it, offer it, smoosh it all around like peanut butter on bread. (Great…now I’m hungry.) Because, life is just one big decision-making process. And you can go with your emotions, or you can go with grace. And by choosing grace… that doesn’t mean that you’ll always just magically fall into that beautiful place. (That place that it looks like everyone else has figured out how to get to based on their perfect pictures on social media.) Sometimes you’ll have to work through emotions and make wrong decisions before finding grace… but it’s a destination worth the trudge, I’m told at least. I’m still working to get there, too.

Hear Lanette Hansen on the Magic Morning Show, weekdays from 5:45-10! Get in touch with her and read more of her blogs here


Jim's Blog: Tips for Working From Home

I have expertise in a lot of stuff very few people care about, so I'm not used to having expertise others might find useful. But I have worked mostly out of a home office since 2003, and my wife has worked at home since 2012. We have some tips that might help you deal with the new reality of working from home. 

Get dressed in the morning. You don't have to dress like you would if you were actually going to the office, but get out of your pajamas and shower. You'll feel more like your working self. 

Stick to a schedule. If your employer doesn't care when you work as long as you put the time in, that's great. You can vary your workday to accommodate a spouse, kids, or whatever's going on in your life. (Word of warning: once you get the the flexibility to set your own schedule, you'll have a hard time giving it up when things get back to normal) But try to get to your workspace at a designated time as much as possible. This is easy for Ann to do, as she is required to punch in by 7:30 every morning. I'm more flexible, but I generally try to be dressed and at my desk by 9AM. Take a lunch hour—away from your desk. Take a coffee/smoke/sanity break in the morning and afternoon. 

When you've made your work schedule, do your best to stick to it. This can be really difficult. You'll be tempted to take 10 minutes in the middle of the morning to load and fold some laundry, and before you know it, you've spent an hour doing chores. (This is me, all the time, even after 16 years of working from home.) 

Respect work time and workspace. At our house, Ann works downstairs and I work upstairs. But not everybody does. The daughter of a friend of mine has a 452-square-foot apartment in New York City that she shares with her fiance. They've hung up signs labeling their their bedroom as “Conference Room 1” and the kitchen as “Human Resources” just to create a sense of normalcy. If only one of you is working but you're both at home, the one who isn't working has a responsibility to respect the other's time and space. If you wouldn't call your spouse at the office to ask where she put those new socks you bought last weekend, don't stomp into her home workspace to ask.  

Related to this: if you're using your home computer for work and you receive regular alerts from Facebook or other social media, you might want to turn those alerts off. There's software that blocks social media entirely or limits your access to it, if that helps.

Prepare to adjust to isolation. If you are used to a busy office, working alone or nearly alone in your house will be distracting at first. Listening to the radio (we're still here and are always going to be) can be helpful. Some people turn the TV on just for the sound, and Ann listens to books on Audible, but those might not work for everyone. If you have colleagues who are working in their homes and you need to stay in touch, don't just text or e-mail back and forth. Call them, webchat, or Skype with them from time to time. You, and they, will welcome that kind of contact. 

Schedule time away from your spouse and family. Somebody observed on Twitter the other day that your drive home from work is decompression time, which allows your brain to transition from work life to home life. His advice was to schedule a walk after work, or some other thing that helps you draw a line between the parts of your day. But beyond that: no matter how close you are to your spouse, or how close you are as a family, 24/7 togetherness will get old, and probably pretty soon. So schedule some time apart. Give the other person some space. If you have a dog, you don't have to walk it together. If you have a TV in the basement, it's OK for one of you to spend the evening down there—or even sleep down there now and then. 

All of this advice comes with a caveat: Ann and I don't have children, and having kids at home will certainly make some of this stuff more difficult. If you have some tips for working at home, let me know. My e-mail is jim.bartlett@magic98.com. I'd be happy to share some of your ideas in a future post.

 


PHOTOS: Women’s Wellness Retreat 2020

The women of Magic 98Lanette Hansen, Ginger Martin, and Jillene Khan thank you for being a part of the 2020 Magic 98 Women’s Wellness Retreat! About 120 of our closest friends joined us at beautiful Madison Concourse Hotel and Governor’s Club on Saturday, March 7 and 8 for a weekend of spirit and soul.

Medium Jonna Kay did a group reading on Saturday night, and on Sunday, Root Song Mindfulness, took us on a journey through the chakras while exploring aromatherapy, breath-work, meditation, and the healing art of Reiki.

Thank you to La-Z-Boy Home Furnishings and Decor for supporting this year's Retreat, to ANiU Salon and Spa and Peace by Piece Studios for the gift bag items!

See pictures from the Women's Wellness Retreat below...

 


Jim's Blog: Another Big Leap

Statistics say that about 200,000 Americans and 4.1 million people worldwide are Leap Year babies, born on February 29, the day that comes only once every four years. I am one of them. People ask if it’s weird only having a birthday every four years. But celebrating on the 28th, the not-quite-date, is normal for me, so it’s the 29ths that are weird. 

I can’t remember not understanding how weird this is. When I was little, I used to get my picture in the local paper on February 29th. In more recent times, a friend who was working for South Dakota Public Radio interviewed me for a story. (This year, Jackson and Steph from our sister station Today’s Q106 had me on their show for a couple of minutes to talk about it—that conversation is here.) Most of the time, however, my birthday is just a birthday, and it feels the same to me as yours does to you.

(Once my nephews figured out they’d had more birthdays than I’d had, they thought it was hilarious.)

This birthday also has a round number attached, one I’m not entirely thrilled about. But I try to approach every birthday, not just the ones on February 29th, with the rough grace of baseball pitcher Satchel Paige, whose own age was a mystery even to him. He supposedly said, “How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you was?” 

Read more of Jim Bartlett’s blogs here.


PHOTOS: Valentine’s Day Delivery Winners

Magic 98 had so much fun Cher-ing the love with you this Valentine’s Day with our annual Valentine’s Day Deliveries! Winners received a pretty sweet Valentine’s Day gift from Magic 98… including a pair of Cher tickets for her show at the Kohl Center on April 9, a $50 gift certificate to spend on bling at William Thomas Custom Jewelry, a wine & cheese tasting from Drumlin Ridge Winery, a gift certificate from Elements Massage for a 30-minute massage, and four tickets to the Zor Shrine Circus’ February 14 performance!

**The deadline to sign up for a Valentine’s Day Delivery has passed.**

Congrats to our winners…

Kasi Rowen at La Petite Academy in Verona
Shannon Little at Academy for Little Learners in Verona
Beth Casto at Dean Central Storage in Madison
Christine Ralston at Auxiant in Madison
Nicole Sanders at Access to Independence in Madison
Joy Hammer at BMO Harris Bank in Madison
Andrea Faust at UW Health in Madison
Olivia Guilfoil at Whole Foods in Madison
Emma Collins at Costco in Middleton
Sarah Callan at Group Health Cooperative in Fitchburg
Jill Beecher at UW Health in Fitchburg
Wendy Peterson at SSM Health
Melissa Goodman at Realtime Utility Engineers in Fitchburg
Olga Neira at Wisconsin Early Childhood Association in Fitchburg
Mariant Hildebrandt at Wisconsin Center for Education Research in Madison

 


Thank You For Community Baby Shower Donations

Thank you for donating to the 17th annual Community Baby Shower with Sentry Foods! Your donations will stay in our community and go to help new moms at The Elizabeth House in Madison and the Sauk Prairie Area Food Pantry in Sauk County.

You can donate to either of these organizations any time! For more information on The Elizabeth House, a safe place for a new start for pregnant women, click here. To connect with the Sauk Prairie Area Food Bank, click here.

Here are some pictures from Magic 98 at local Sentry and Metcalfe’s Markets collecting items for the 2020 Community Baby Shower